THE PLEASURE ATELIER
About My Approach
Most people come to me because they’re craving something real. They want deeper connection, more ease in their bodies, truth in their relationships, and pleasure that actually lasts.
Our work together is where all of that begins.
The KINK™ Framework: Know. Integrate. Nurture. Keep.
KINK™ isn’t necessarily about what happens in the bedroom, it’s about how you meet yourself everywhere, including there. It’s a framework for reclaiming erotic honesty, presence, and pleasure.
Know: We start with radical honesty. What do you crave? Not what you think you should want, but what does your body actually long for? What’s real beneath the roles, routines, and expectations you’ve absorbed about sex, love, and worthiness? Here, we make space for desire to be messy, curious, and true.
Integrate: Insight means nothing if you can’t live it. Together, we take what you’ve uncovered—your truths, your fears, your turn-ons—and weave them into daily life. This might mean unlearning performative sex, finding your voice in intimacy, or letting pleasure inform the way you work, create, and connect.
Nurture: We don’t force openness; we cultivate it. This is where you learn to attune to your body’s natural tempo and to trust its signals. We're not chasing the empty promises of self-care culture; we're learning the quiet art of staying connected to what’s real.
Keep: The final step is staying. Staying with the truth you’ve found, the pleasure you’ve reclaimed, and the parts of you that used to hide. It’s learning to hold desire without performing it, to keep your aliveness close even when life feels demanding.
The 'O' Zones: Where We Work
Each O’Zone explores a different entry point into embodied aliveness. Together, they form a full-spectrum approach to intimacy, pleasure, and purpose. You're in charge of which zone(s) we focus on.
On Pleasure and Productivity
Our culture teaches hustle without heart and pleasure without purpose. Here, we reclaim both. You’ll learn to anchor productivity in presence, rest, and sensuality. We unhook pleasure from guilt so it becomes fuel for sustainable energy, not burnout.
On Intimacy and Autonomy
Together, we rewire the beliefs that sex is about performance, not your pleasure, and that intimacy requires self-abandonment. You’ll learn how to communicate your needs, set boundaries that feel freeing, and experience desire that comes from choice, not obligation.
This is where we address the common stuck points: mismatched libidos, low desire, body disconnection, fear of rejection, or difficulty receiving pleasure.
On Slow Living
Slow living is a love affair with presence. We’ll create rituals that ground you in your body and relationships. You’ll experience how slowing down rekindles desire and deepens intimacy.
On Business and Pleasure
Your erotic energy is your creative energy. This zone helps you bring embodiment into your leadership, work, and visibility. We’ll explore how to make decisions from alignment rather than depletion, how to build a business and life that feels like foreplay, not a grind.
MEET THE Pleasure Atleier
I'm Shauna
You’ve built a life of responsibility, vision, and influence, yet somewhere along the way, parts of you had to quiet down to keep everything else running. My work is where those parts come back online.
I guide those who hold public responsibility back into private wholeness.
Through intimate coaching, retreats, and cultural inquiry, I help you dissolve the old myths that separate sexuality from power and what it means to feel alive.
Together, we explore what becomes possible when pleasure, consent, and nourishment shape how you live, love, and lead.
If you’re here, you’re likely already successful. What’s next isn’t necessarily “more”, it’s deeper.
As a certified sexuality educator and intimacy coach with advanced training in consent and embodied relationship work, I offer grounded, evidence-based guidance to help you:
- Reconnect with your body’s intelligence.
- Expand your capacity for intimacy and pleasure.
- Build relationships and leadership rooted in integrity, ease, and coherence.
Certified Sexuality Educator
Certified Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach
'Like A Pro,' School of Consent
Trauma Informed
Masters in Public Administration
Former non-profit CEO, community leader, and Puget Sound Business Journal "40 Under 40" Recipient
LGBTQIA+, KINK & CNM affirming, informed and friendly
All services are confidential and discrete.
MY WHY
Coherence
For so much of my life, I felt pulled into pieces. Mother in one room, lover in another. Leader at work, seeker in the quiet moments when no one was watching. Each role demanded something different, and I often wondered if all of me could ever live in the same space at the same time.
Maybe you can relate?
What I have learned, and what I now promise to myself and to everyone I work with, is that the answer is yes. The word that holds this all together for me is coherence.
Coherence is logical clarity: the relief that comes when a story, an idea, or even a day finally makes sense as a whole. It’s when I stop pretending and the pieces of my truth no longer contradict one another.
Coherence is consistency: not in the rigid sense of always doing the same thing, but in the deeper way of being aligned and of knowing that my words, my choices, and my presence match what I believe.
Coherence is unity: the weaving together of many elements into a living whole. It is where grief and joy, fatigue and vitality, doubt and devotion all belong in the same body, the same spirit, the same moment.
This is why I do what I do. I don’t seek perfection or performance; I seek coherence. I believe that when we bring all of who we are (our contradictions, our longings, our brilliance, our mess) into the room, something special happens. We finally get to live in our wholeness.
On BEING A PATHFINDER
CORE VALUES
Pleasure. Aliveness. Timing. Humanity.
I call myself a Pleasure Seeker and a PATH Finder, not as titles, but as invitations. To seek pleasure is to honor desire as medicine; to find our PATH is to live guided by the values that bring us back to coherence: Pure Pleasure, Radical Aliveness, Intuitive Timing, and Collective Humanity.
Below is a list of my core values, or, in other words, what I offer when I walk beside you. It's an invitation to be undone, to linger, and to belong as both Pleasure Seeker and PATH Finder.
Pure Pleasure
Purity not as chastity, but as unpolluted intention, integrity, honesty, and clear motives. This is the baseline for how I lead, teach, and create. Pleasure medicine heals, nourishes, and makes us fully alive. Only when stripped of performance, shame, and consumerist packaging does it truly become pure pleasure.
Radical Aliveness
This is where we reject the watered-down promises of self-care culture. Aliveness cannot be bought, scheduled, or performed. It's not a bubble bath or face mask, but the unedited experience of being fully here - in your body, in your relationships, and in your pleasure. Radical Aliveness is the courage to feel it all: joy and grief, desire and fatigue, clarity and confusion...and to be able to connect to pleasure, power, and play through all of it. It is not comfort for its own sake but for that of coherence. To choose Radical Aliveness is to refuse numbing and depletion, and to claim instead the full spectrum of what it means to be human.
Intuitive Timing
It’s about time. Intuitive Timing means listening for when something is ready rather than forcing it to fit a schedule or an expectation. It is the practice of trusting beginnings, endings, and pauses as they arrive, of letting desire and capacity shape the moment. Intuitive Timing is coherence with time itself: a way of living where presence, patience, and attunement take precedence over obligation.
Collective Humanity
Intimacy and liberation are not solitary pursuits. We are made and remade in relationship through care, conflict, communion, and collaboration. Collective Humanity means honoring the messy, interdependent weave of our lives. It resists the myth of individual achievement and insists that joy, justice, and pleasure expand when they are shared. This value is coherence scaled outward: wholeness that lives not only within, but between us.
